Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Necessary but Impossible Demands

September 4, 2016     Pentecost 16                           Luke 14:25-33
I’m sure you’ve come across advertisements in magazines or newspapers that are trying to sell an amazing product at an amazing price.  But you’ve learned to look at the fine print on the bottom of the page.  Often the deal isn’t all that great, or there are so many exceptions almost no one qualifies.  The same thing happens with radio and TV ads.  The commercial goes on and on about how great something is, but then before it’s over there’s some voice which can talk incredibly fast that lists all the potential dangers and side effects of a product.  And we also realize this product isn’t so great.
Perhaps our gospel reading is the fine print of following Jesus.  It all sounds so great.  Jesus heals people.  He likes to go to celebrations and banquets.  He seems to be a friend to anyone.  There are the great healing miracles and amazing sermons.  He teaches that his yoke is easy and his burden is light.  Following Jesus seems like an amazing deal; all benefits and no downside.  But then it’s time for the fine print, although Jesus didn’t hide this stuff at the bottom of the page.  He says it clearly and openly for all to hear and know.  True discipleship costs, and it can cost a lot. 
These are probably the most troubling of Jesus’ teachings that we have:  Hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even your own life.  Bear a cross.  Sell all your possessions or you cannot be my disciples.  They are so out of sync with everything we live that most people simply ignore them.  People have struggled with these words for centuries, coming to multiple conclusions about how to act on them.
Indeed Jesus often used exaggerated speech to make his point.  He certainly does not say to love people in one place and then in another teach that you should hate your family and friends.  But what does this all mean?
In regards to selling your possessions, when I was growing up I was taught that Jesus didn’t mean that literally for everybody.  What he really meant is that we should be willing to sell our possessions if he asks us to.  And I always thought, exactly how clear would Jesus have to speak before you obeyed that command.  If the clouds in the sky suddenly spelled out, “Jonathan Deibler, sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor.  If you don’t you’ll burn in hell.  This is God speaking.  Do it now.” I doubt that people would even respond then.  (Well, maybe if it was my name in the clouds you have no trouble pushing me to do it, but what if it was your name?)
Hate family and friends, give up your possessions; these simply are too counter to everything we live that we simply won’t do them.  We look to our relationships with other people to affirm us and give us a sense of place; even a sense of home.  And even though many a person who’s house has burned down says, “It’s all just stuff.  At least everyone got out safely,” they really aren’t prepared to go through the rest of life with nothing.  Insurances cover losses.  Houses are rebuilt.  New possessions are acquired.  Our possessions define us.  They give us a social rank.  They speak of our success, or lack thereof.  What you drive says a lot about you.  There’s: the worn out old sedan driven by a family just starting out, the minivan driven by the responsible parent, the convertible driven by the guy in a mid-life crises with his hair implants and leather jacket, there’s the dark and murky driver of a Harley Davidson, and the obnoxious jerk driving an SUV that’ll probably never leave a paved highway.
Money is a source of safety and power.  Whenever I travel a long distance I like to have enough cash in my wallet to buy a tank of gas, a decent meal and a night’s lodging.  Even though I’ve never had to depend upon it, I figure if power or computer systems crash I won’t be anything more than mildly inconvenienced.  In whatever form it takes: cash, credit, debit, money is power.  It is safety.  No matter how generous and selfless we are, we are terrified to lose that security.
It is a real leap of faith to give up the safety and security of money and relationships and really put the demands of discipleship first.
Over the centuries many people have done just that.  The book of Acts records the early Christians selling their possessions and living in community, holding everything in common.  I don’t like to use the word communist, because of what it has come to mean, but in many places the earliest churches were really communal.  Monasteries and convents continue the pattern where people forsake family and friends, money and possessions, and live a life that is clearly devoted to discipleship.
Should we all do that?  Is that what Jesus really wants from us?  If I say “yes” you’ll all tune me out and start daydreaming about something more pleasant.  If I say “no” then you’ll breathe a sigh of relief; and then still daydream about something else!
One thing we definitely do want to do is to acknowledge to ourselves, and to God, that we are fearful and uncomfortable with it all.  We don’t want to do it, and if pressed we’d most likely fail.  It is important for our lives of faith to realize just how deeply we are connected to our stuff and our relationships.  We can and should have the feeling that our priorities are messed up.  Why are our possessions so important to us?  Why do we put so much faith in something that is transient?  We can and should pray that God give us appropriate priorities.
Fortunately for us God is gracious and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love.  That does not mean that we get off free, but it does mean we have hope.  And I believe that if you constantly come to God with your sins and failings and really and truly acknowledge how deeply you are trapped in them, then you are opening the door for God to work.  You may be surprised.  In time you may look back and realize that by God many possessions and relationships have lost importance and have been replaced with a deeper love and trust in God.
When Jesus spoke these words he was on his final journey to Jerusalem.  If you wanted to follow Jesus you had to drop what you were doing and follow him.  Tomorrow would be too late.  The disciples had indeed left family and possessions behind to take this journey with him.
And though we are shocked when Jesus makes the demands we hear in our gospel reading let’s also remember what Jesus does himself.  He has given up father and mother plus sisters and brothers.  He has no home and no real possessions.  While the disciples are with him when he makes his triumphal entry into Jerusalem, they are gone on Thursday.  No earthly relationships or resources were available to Jesus in the crucifixion.  He had given up everything in devotion to God’s purposes.  From the perspective of our faith we realize that Jesus is not asking us to do anything that he hasn’t already done himself.  I’m much more willing to follow someone’s command when they’ve already done the same themselves.
Harsh as Jesus’ teachings are they contain blessings too, as they always do.  Freed from worrying about protecting our earthly relationships and possessions we can delight in God’s certain promises for the future.  In next week’s gospel reading we’re going to discover a very strange teaching about money and possessions.  It’s a head scratcher to be sure, but it teaches us something great about things, and it is sure to bring a smile to our faces when we realize what God has done.

May you take our Lord’s words seriously.  And may you also delight in the goodness God gives to those who dare to take him seriously, for God wants us to be joyful indeed and will always give us what will bring that joy into our lives truly and fully.

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