And then, if you do actually become the president, or any high office, you’ve got a lot of favors to pay back. You’re expected to help your supporters get ahead as well. And of course there are probably skeletons in your closet you now have to keep hidden. And there are deals you made in ‘smoke filled rooms’ that you want to keep quiet. And of course there are re-election issues to consider.
After all that, do you really have
that much freedom or power? No, you’re
probably a slave to your own schemes. We
have to ask ourselves, is anyone who really wants to be President of the United
States fit for the job?
Let’s leave the high profile world
and come closer to our own. While probably
none of us have the drive to become president, some of the same dynamics can
take hold of our lives. Jesus’ teachings
about true piety and humility are for our own good. God does not want us to be humble so that God
can feel good; as if God is president and we are all lowly campaign workers
whose own ambitions God doesn’t want as competition!
Last Christmas and New Years I was
visiting relatives and someone was watching a show on the Disney Channel. I don’t know the name of the show. It was some cartoon about the children of
fairy tale characters. Anyway, I caught
a conversation between two teenage girl characters that went something like
this:
“Help me make these cupcakes into something fabulous.”
“Help me make these cupcakes into something fabulous.”
“I
didn’t know you liked to make cupcakes. Why
the sudden interest?”
“Because
when Sarah made cupcakes everyone raved about them, and I want to make them so
people will rave about me too.”
“Alright,
let’s see what we can do.”
Haven’t we all been there at some time or another? Haven’t we been around people we want to impress and so tried to do something impressive? We want to do something to stand out, something unique, something important, something to receive praise. I think these dynamics are most powerful when we are adolescents, but they can carry on throughout all of life.
These things can be very
subtle. If you have a circle of friends
and you’re trying to decide what you want to do, it’s nice when you have an
idea and everybody jumps on it too. It’s
no fun if your thoughts are constantly ignored or shot down.
Do you ever ask yourself why you
really are doing what you do? Are you
doing it to fit it? Are you doing it to
impress someone? Are you doing it in
order to feel acceptable or worthwhile?
Why do you really want to make cupcakes?
It takes real courage to be the Disney character who answered, “So that
people praise me.”
Ten years ago I began to serve on
the synod’s candidacy committee. That’s
the committee that oversees the development of pastors through the seminary
process. The candidacy committee is
considered by many to be the most powerful and prestigious committee in the
synod. I remember my first several
meetings sitting there at this table surrounded by some of the titans of our
synod – names and legends: pastors, seminary professors, professionals leading
their fields. I was both honored to be
seated at a table with these folks, but I also knew I was way out of my
league. I didn’t want to look like a
fool. I wanted to show I was indeed good
enough to be there. When we had
conversations and made decisions I wanted to say things that were insightful
and worthwhile and wise. I didn’t want
these highly intimidating people to look at me and think, “What’s that guy
doing here?” If I’m bluntly honest with
myself, my motives for what I did were to get the praise of the others around
the table.
In our gospel reading Jesus taught
not to do things so as to be praised by other people. We make a mistake if we imagine the people
Jesus is calling hypocrites are high flyers like presidential candidates, or
even any person who makes a big deal about what they do. Jesus was probably speaking in parables,
using exaggerations, to make his point.
His point speaks to us – not as a condemnation, but as a warning.
Why do we do what we do? When our motives are to get acceptance and
praise we are in dangerous territory. We
are taking a serious risk of getting hurt.
We are looking to other people to establish and maintain our sense of
self-worth. God tells us that our
self-worth resides safely and securely in him and him alone.
When we do something purely for the
point of being constructive and helpful and up-building, then we are truly
giving. Then whether our efforts are
notice or not noticed, accepted or rejected, we do not feel that we ourselves
are being accepted or rejected.
If your life is a popularity contest
then you are living in a very frightening and insecure way. You want to live as Jesus instructed. That is to put your treasure in what God is
doing. Put your trust in the fact that
God loves you and cares for you and makes you worth something. If God honors you, you’re a fool to look
anywhere else.
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